I bet that half of you reading this blog have never met us, or have never met I! So, I figure it’s time to share the story of “us” in as short of time as possible.
Kevin and I met online just over 3 years ago. I got a mysterious email sent from my old high school personal website that only included a picture. That picture was of Kevin, and after a few emails back and forth, I figured out he didn’t know how to work email, but that he was cute enough to talk to-Ha! Anyways-so began the hours long phone conversations that went well into early morning and caused some very disturbing phone bills (just ask my mom!).
Three weeks into our phone conversations, Kevin’s father passed away abruptly from an angyna attack. It was completely unexpected, and devastating for his family. Kevin held his faith through it, and we bonded even more so through this terrible event. Soon after, we decided it was time for us to finally meet face to face.
In August, Kevin came down to visit for two weeks, and we both admitted it was “love at first site”. The calls continued, and we visited each other as much as possible, although all long distance relationships are extremely difficult.
In April of 2006, Kevin came down to visit me in Montana where I was living at the time (I had moved from Lancaster in February of 2006 to Montana to explore). We were taking a walk along the Bitterroot river downtown, and he got down on one knee and professed his love and commitment to me. We were engaged, and life was roses.
So begins the immigration battle. Over the next 7 months we battled high and low with US immigration to get a K-1 fiance visa for Kevin to move to the states where we could be married. I moved home, as we decided it would be best to make our home in Lancaster. Finally, right around Thanskgiving, we got the best thing to be thankful for: an approval for the visa! Kevin flew to Vancouver over the following weeks to interview, and we were set.
The last week in January of 2007, Kevin and his mom and brother came down to move Kevin in and for our wedding. On February 3, 2007, we were married at New Danville Mennonite Church in Lancaster, Pa. We honeymooned at my parents (primitive-haha-but comfy) hunting cabin in Wellsboro, Pa (northern) and Buffalo, NY. It was cold-did I mention we got married during a record cold week in Pa? That week’s average was around 10 F. Ugh!
During the first 4 months, Kevin was unable to legally work. It was very frustrating and difficult. Finally, in June, he received his working papers, and soon after, his 2 year permanent residency. In August, the position opened with Rohrer’s One Hour, who agreed to hire him on as an apprentice-he was so happy. We had moved to our College Avenue apartment in March and were finally settling into NORMAL married life.
I introduced Kevin to the Atlantic Ocean on Memorial Day weekend of 2007, and he was hooked to ocean life and surf fishing! Ever since, we’ve gotten down to the beach for getaway weekends as much as possible. It’s so relaxing, and so much fun for us.
Over the past year we have enjoyed exploring around the East and just enjoying finally being with each other! We have discovered that we are each other’s perfect fit. We’re a story that wouldn’t have happened, but for the grace of God, and invention of the internet!
We are so happy together and can’t wait to be for many, many years to come. We have so many dreams to fulfill, and through this journey have discovered even more things we want to do.
We thank you for joining in our love story.
Here are a few pictures from back when…
Hi Brenda and Kevin!
I read every day, and sometimes several times a day, to get updates. You both continue to be in our thoughts and prayers. I am thrilled to hear things are going in the right direction for you. As I was just reading about how you both met, it kind of reminds me about Mike and I (Mike works with Brenda’s dad). We met through a phone dating service and when we finally met it was love at first sight, for me at least. When Mike and I got married, December 28, 2002, it was freezing cold. On Christmas day, 3 days before the wedding, we had a blizzard. Anyhow, reading your story reminded me of our dating and wedding. Thanks for that! We Mike, myself, Abi who is 3 1/2 and Lyla who is 2) are headed to Ocean City, MD on Sunday and probably will visit Assateague Island. I will say a special prayer for you while we are there. I will miss not being able to keep up with the updates while we are gone. Sorry to keep rambling on. May God continue to bless you and heal you both. Our thoughts, prayers and love,
Amy and Mike Walborn
Hi guys,
Just sending you a note to let you know that you continue to be in our everyday thoughts and prayers. I read this blog daily and without a doubt am amazed at how strong the two of you are. We all have our own special love stories and this one definitely ranks right up there.
Brenda, you are truly an amazing human being and Kevin definately has an angel in you. I don’t believe I have ever met anyone quite like you, your strength is a gift. When Kevin pulls through all of this, a huge part will be because of your unending love and devotion, that in it of itself is the ultimate healing power. Kevin, you have to get better, you need to spend the rest of your life loving this woman and each other. You know you can beat this.
Keep fighting and stay strong, your love story has only just begun.
xoxoxoxooxoxox
Hi Brenda, and Kevin,
What a beautiful story-I had heard it before, but your words put so much more meaning to it!!! I am addicted to your blog-I have to hear the updates on Kevin, but your stories, words, prayer-is something I MUST hear!!! Kinda gives me hope that I too, one day will meet someone just as you have.
You two truly are amazing-I know you will be given the opportunity to live all your dreams and be happy together forever 🙂
Hope the weekend is good and Kevin gets stronger and stronger 🙂